For most first-time buyers, the down payment — not the monthly payment — is the real wall between renting and owning. The good news: you almost certainly need less cash than you think, and there is a large, underused world of programs designed to help you cover it.
You probably don't need 20% down
The idea that you must save 20% is one of the most expensive myths in home buying. Many loan programs allow far less:
- Conventional loans often start at 3% down for qualified buyers.
- FHA loans allow as little as 3.5% down with more flexible credit requirements.
- VA and USDA loans offer 0% down for eligible veterans, service members, and buyers in qualifying rural areas.
Twenty percent has one real benefit — it lets you skip private mortgage insurance (PMI) — but it is not a requirement to buy. Putting down less means you buy sooner and keep more cash in reserve; the trade-off is PMI and slightly higher payments until you build equity. If the loan mechanics are fuzzy, read how mortgages work first.
What down-payment assistance actually is
Down-payment assistance (DPA) is help — usually from a government agency, nonprofit, or employer — that covers part of your down payment or closing costs. It generally comes in a few forms:
- Grants you never repay.
- Forgivable loans that are erased after you live in the home for a set number of years.
- Low- or zero-interest second loans repaid over time, or when you sell or refinance.
There are thousands of these programs nationwide, run at the state, county, and city level, plus some through employers and unions. Many buyers qualify and simply never apply because they don't know the programs exist.
Who typically qualifies
Every program sets its own rules, but common requirements include earning at or below an income limit for your area, buying within a price cap, completing a short homebuyer education course, and using the home as your primary residence. "First-time buyer" is often defined loosely — many programs count anyone who hasn't owned a home in the past three years.
How to find programs near you
- Start with a local lender. Good lenders know which state and local programs pair with which loans and can tell you quickly what you qualify for.
- Check your state housing finance agency. Nearly every state runs first-time-buyer programs; HUD keeps state-by-state resources on its buying a home page.
- Ask your agent. A local agent has watched real clients use these programs and knows which ones are smooth and which are slow.
Watch the fine print
Assistance is real money, but read the terms. Some second loans must be repaid when you sell or refinance; some grants require you to stay a set number of years or repay a portion. None of this is a reason to skip DPA — it just means you should understand the strings before you sign. This is educational information, not financial or legal advice; a licensed lender or housing counselor can confirm the details for your situation. The CFPB's Owning a Home tools are a good neutral place to start.
When you're ready, a local agent can point you to the right lenders and programs. Getting matched on Homegrity is always free for buyers, we never take a cut of your purchase, and your details are never resold. Start with our buyer guide or get matched with a local agent.
Frequently asked questions
Is down-payment assistance only for first-time buyers?
Often, but not always — and "first-time" is usually defined as not having owned a home in the past three years. Some programs also serve repeat buyers, teachers, veterans, and buyers in specific areas.
Do I have to pay assistance back?
It depends on the program. Grants are not repaid, forgivable loans are erased after you stay a set number of years, and second loans are repaid over time or when you sell or refinance. Always read the terms.
Can I use assistance with an FHA or conventional loan?
Usually yes. Many DPA programs are designed to layer on top of FHA, conventional, VA, or USDA loans. A local lender can tell you which combinations work in your area.
Does using assistance make my offer weaker?
Not inherently, but some sellers prefer simpler financing in competitive markets. A strong pre-approval and an experienced local agent help your offer stand out regardless.


